Morningside Drive

27 April 09

Manic Monday Meme

Filed under: Memes — by turtlemom3 @ 10:23 am

What’s the best summer job you ever had?

I never really had a summer job, but I had many part-time jobs. While I was in Nursing School, I worked part time in the hospital. This job continued through the summers. This was very exciting and very educational. Didn’t pay much, but it was a great job.

Tell me about the worst date you ever went on.

On on which my date tried to abuse me. I got out of his car and walked home.

Do you think the age for a driver’s license should be raised (currently 16 here in the U.S.)?

I think every teen should go through drivers training classes and get a LOT of experience driving with a good driver in the car there to correct and to praise. At the point at which the student driver has experience enough, and has demonstrated good judgment in a large number of different driving situations, then a drivers license can be issued – regardless of age: 16, 17, 18, 19, 20. Some will be ready sooner, some later, some never.

21 April 09

Yesterday was Monday

Filed under: Memes — by turtlemom3 @ 8:36 am

I didn’t get my Manic Monday Meme until this morning, so I’ll do it today.

Describe to me your favorite lounging clothes.

Sweat pants and a tee shirt

If you promised to never lie again in your lifetime, in what area would it be hardest to uphold the promise?

Answering another woman when she asks how she looks in something I think is ugly.

Give a one word answer to the question “why is life worth living”.

God

19 April 09

Paschal Message of Patriarch Kirill of Moscow

Filed under: Church — by turtlemom3 @ 10:26 am

PASCHAL MESSAGE of His Holiness Patriarch KIRILL of Moscow and All Russia to the Archpastors, Pastors, Monastics and All Faithful Children of the Russian Orthodox Church April 19th, 2009

Dear and beloved in the Lord your graces the archpastors, the all-honourable presbytery and diaconate, God-loving monks and nuns, and all faithful children of the Church,

Christ is risen!

It is with this joyful exclamation that we now greet each other anew. Paschal rejoicing fills our hearts, for Christ’s resurrection is the foundation of a life that has conquered death, sin and corruption. We are called to relive Pascha as the triumph of life not only on this day: every Sunday reveals to us the majesty of the Saviour’s feat, liberating us from death and destroying the fetters of sin which separate man from God. Moreover, each minute of the true Christian is to be replete with Paschal joy.

‘I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live’ (John 11:25). Christ’s resurrection has granted to us genuine freedom and filled man’s existence with meaning and hope. The most important thing is that it has opened up the way to Life Eternal to every one who believes in Christ and who lives in the Church. Therefore there can be no cause for despair, despondency and fear for those who love Christ and follow him in all circumstances of their earthly path, for ‘Christ is risen from the dead, and become the firstfruits of them that slept’ (1 Cor. 15:20).

The Paschal triumph of life embraces the whole world, all of divine creation, bringing it to life with grace. ‘Christ is risen, and life reigneth,’ says St. John Chrysostom in his Paschal homily. The divine gift of life, trampled upon and defiled by the falling away of the old Adam, is again revealed to us in its plenitude by Christ the new Adam.

Having communicated with the plenitude of this generous revelation of divine mercy, let us, my dear ones, value and preserve this gift. Where blood is shed and people suffer, where the image of God is trampled upon in pursuit of greed, conflict and selfishness, let us come to the defence of this image by fulfilling our Christian vocation. May our knowledge of Christ’s Truth be a firm foundation for bearing witness to the risen Christ before our neighbours and those afar so that they may find life eternal. May the Almighty Lord strengthen us in knowledge of God, in mutual love and in deeds of compassion and charity. Let us zealously endeavour to ensure that not only our individual lives but the life of all society be constructed according to God’s commandments, for it is only in fulfilling them that we will be granted the fullness and harmony of being. It is precisely in this way that we can testify to our love for God, for as he said, ‘If ye love me, keep my commandments’ (John 14:15).

In these difficult times let us reveal our Christian vocation through deeds, let us support each other so that no one feels himself humiliated, abandoned, poor or denigrated. I desire that you all strive unceasingly towards heaven in all your thoughts, actions and intentions by recalling the words of the apostle: ‘If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God’ (Col. 3:1).

Full of joy in Christ who has trampled down death and torn asunder the bonds of hell, I would in particular like to appeal to our young people faced with the broad field of labours, hopes and achievements. Before you lies the task of creating through your own endeavours the future of our nation and our Church. May the powers, talents and abilities given to you by God be used for the good of your neighbours, for the fulfillment of your vocation and for the attaining of God’s holy will.

My beloved! On this ‘chosen and holy day’ I embrace and greet each one of you, sharing my joy with all who confess the name of Christ and with each who is ready to accept into his heart the joy of the Paschal greeting:

Christ is risen! He is risen indeed!

16 April 09

[Archive #14]

Filed under: Archive, Marriage — by turtlemom3 @ 6:54 pm

Too Long!

Too long since I last posted anything here! Several friends had bad results from their blogs, and I became “leery.”

One of my DH’s friends sent this to him (it goes around the internet from time to time):

“HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE
“Home Economics High School Text Book, 1954

“Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal, on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

“Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so that you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

“Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the home just before your husband arrives, gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

“Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair, and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

“Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, dishwasher, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad he is home.

“Some don’ts: Don’t greet him with problems or complaints. Don’t complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

“Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

“Make the evening his. Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.

“The Goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit. “

I remember that textbook! (Guess that dates me, hunh?) And I thought it was a bunch of hooey back then!

Well, I love my DH’s response to his friend (he copied me):

“Yeah — I’ve seen this. I prefer a companion with some brains & spunk. Any man that has to marry a maid has serious problems.”

O Joy! what a great guy!

Cheerio!
Elizabeth
Posted by Elizabeth at 6/15/2005 06:51:00 AM

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